I don't understand why almost 95% of females are the same way when it comes to their boyfriends. I mean, Can't guys have friends that are girls? I mean, I must be the only girl out there that doesn't have a jealous bone in her body when it comes to my boyfriends having girls as friends. oh well, I guess i am just that big of a threat. haha kidding. no but seriously let me ramble for a bit because i haven't gotten the chance to in a while, and its 2am and i have nothing better to do with my life besides write this blog and text Vince about High school musical. Haha anywho.. here we go.
Number Uno: a boyfriend is more than just a status you have with someone, it's a bond. a bond on trust for number one, if you don't have that trust in your boyfriend to 'allow' him to talk to other girls, then you don't need a relationship with him. and i put allow in quotes, because he can DO whatever he wants, you are his girlfriend not his mother. Please realize that he chose you, not the other girl. it is a mere friendly conversation when your boyfriend talks to other girls. Trust people TRUST! it's the foundation of a relationship. and honestly, if you don't trust the one your with 99% of the time, you have something yourself that you are hiding, and yet guilty of.
Number Dos: do not TIE your boyfriend down. why would he want that? you don't want that. so don't do it to him. take my advice, I am talking sense right now. Fellas will read this and knod their heads. i understand you like the boy. (i like one in particular very much) but i am not about to ruin it by being on his nuts every second of the day. when he wants to talk to me, he will. I will not push him, because in the end that will only push him away. Ever play cards? let the chips fall. it's okay you don't talk to someone every single day. just think, the more you are away from him, the more you miss him, therefore when you do see him... its so much better. at least i think so. and in a new relationship don't text constantly. it isn't healthy, if your texting all the time, he is getting bored with you, and won't call you. I would rather here my boys voice, than a texting all the time. just sayin'
man listen to my rambling. there is no need for this. i could be sleeping right now. so i think thats what i am going to do. go lay down. but you need to dwell on what i said in this entry ladies because you are getting bad when it comes to the opposite sex, and you are ruining it for gals like me that know how to handle a good relationship with an awesome guy.
kthanks.
goodnight.
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
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